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What hurts us

But does not kill us makes us stronger....

It hurt me a long time ago. It hurt me again. Then again.. I thought I would not survive but I did. Looking back. I see a strong little girl, trying very hard to make it in life. Feeling alone and scared but always smiling and acting brave. Poor little girl, come let me take care of you, let me hug you and hold you and keep you safe. Nothing in this world can ever hurt you like that, as long as I am around. Be happy, run and dance and laugh your heart out. There is a life to be lived and not in misery but in joy.

Things happen for a reason. There is always a reason. Look on the silver lining and you will be okay.

Plus a few things to watch out for:
1) Do not forget what was done to us that hurt us. If we allow this to repeat, we are not learning our life lessons well enough.
2) Do not pity the liars and the cheats.
3) Do not lose the ones that stood by you.
4) Save money...

LOL... okay enough of being serious. I still have not finished the book from Prof Material. I am rereading sections which I really want to learn. Maybe on my Saigon trip I will be able to finish it and start on the second book he gave me. Life got so busy. I want to take a pitstop.

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carolchs said…
Rach, can I have a fridge magnet from Saigon? hehehe...tidak malu this mau minta beli :D

Enjoy your Saigon trip ya.
February 14, 2010 at 10:00 AM
Dr. Rachel Mansa said…
ahhahaha...
I almost forgot...

I was looking at fridge magnets and was wondering who I needed to get them for..
February 18, 2010 at 11:52 PM
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