This is such a good holiday. All MOH and I have done with the kids are have breakfast and take afternoon naps. Relaxing. A much needed rest. :) Things are good. life is peaceful. My kiddo and my baby are growing so fast. My baby has started pushing himself forward. He looks so interested with all that is around him. I can not describe my joy in watching him grow so fast. He is so active and cheerful. My kiddo on the other hand has gone into watching video cds non stop. It worries me. But I also welcome the free time it gives me to spend with baby. You see I struggle to find time for my baby because my kiddo is also very needy of attention. It is not his fault. It is just his age. Hmmmm sometimes i feel like i have to be a superwoman.
This blog is not a reference point to give a tried and true method of finding a Gem of a Guy but just a sharing of experience. I have talked to a few friends who had good solid marriages and I summarised what I learned from them in this blog. I wrote it as a continuation to my last blog on why do good girls choose bad boys? Every time I met a friend who had a very steady and good husband I never failed to ask them how they found these guys. The first thing they always say is that they never liked their present husbands initially and that they had other choices whom they preferred more. However their present husbands did not give up pursuing them for months or years. These men did not stop showing them how much they were cared for. These men came to visit the family and genuinely tried to show how they appreciate them in front of their families and friends. These men were not self centered. These men would try and know your likes and dislikes. Eventually the genuine care was evident. ...
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