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10 days old and 4.3 kg

The nurses from KD Limbanak came over after lunch yesterday. I was shocked to find that my son had gained approx 750 g over ten days. How amazing is that?

Well that is what you get from a continuously drinking, peeing and pooing baby. In the first few days he was consistently attached to me. Which was different to during my Kiddo's time. I guess it was because this time my milk took a while to come. My baby would pee and poo sooo often I was wondering if I should start plugging his behind to stop things from coming out. Anyhoo... although he is not as consistently stuck to my breast now, he would pee as soon as after feeding. I would basically go through more than ten nappies per twelve hours with this kid. Luckily I have someone to help me witht he washing.

I was also planning my baby's full moon. Guess what? His full moon falls bang in the middle of the Ramadhan month. Oh dear. My MIL and I decided to push it back to two months later. So I do not have to be so busy yet.

I still have a nagging feeling I should start doing some work now. Geez... I have been so happy not thinking about work... aw all good things will come to an end.

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Misako said…
Congratulation Mama Rach! Hope capat sembuh ya.. Take care.

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